Sunday, May 16, 2010

I've been surprisingly busy

A lot has happened since last I wrote. Sorry for the lack up updates, for those of you who care about this kind of thing. Here's what's happening.
  • Our air conditioner went out Friday afternoon. We are not amused. We are also very hot.
  • Superman is building screen frames for our windows. We used to have screens in the windows, but they have deteriorated or broken or been attacked by kids and cats until we no longer have window screens. He built the first one this morning, and it is now installed on our bedroom window.
  • I saw Diva on Thursday. It was our mother/daughter relationship-building session. I took knitting needles and re-introduced her to knitting. She did fairly well. We had a pleasant and positive interaction, but I don't feel as though it was "real" in any meaningful sense. She was on her good behavior, and I was putting on a show for the therapists at the facility. Whatever. We'll go through the motions, and maybe something real will come of it eventually, but I doubt it.
  • After my visit with Diva I went to Target and bought a new wallet and a small purse. We don't have a Target in this po-dunk town, so it was sort of thrilling, in that "I don't like to shop for that kind of thing" way. So I got a wallet, and I don't like it. It seemed better in the store, but upon getting home and transferring my stuff into it, the wallet doesn't do what I need it to do. I haven't done anything else about it yet. Don't have the energy.
  • When Superman got home Thursday evening, he said "Let's go to the Verizon store and get our new phones." It was time, and our old phones were worn out. He convinced me to get a Blackberry. He got one too, but amusingly enough, he gave it to Twitch today and got himself a simpler phone. Twitch and Light got their new phones today. So Twitch made out sweet with his own Blackberry. Whatever.
  • My advice to all who will take heed: do not get a new wallet, new purse, and a new phone all in the same day. Each one takes a while to get used to, especially a phone. It feels as though I've moved into a new house, having to learn my way around these new information spaces.
  • Twitch is home for the weekend, just to visit. And to get a new phone. And to help move his sister out of her dorm and back home for the summer. He's worked a lot this weekend, but got a friggin' Blackberry out of the deal, so I don't feel sorry for him!
  • And Light is home for the summer. It's good to have her home again. She's a positive, stabilizing force in this household. She takes good care of me. I feel slightly guilty that she's more of a caretaker than I am in this relationship, but I'm too busy with other stuff to let it bother me now.
  • Did I mention that the air conditioner is broken? Superman is afraid it might be dead, or close enough to dead to make no real difference. It's not a new unit by a darn sight, and has needed to be replaced for a while anyway. It's been limping along for the past three years. Last year it didn't give us any trouble, praise FSM. The year before, though, it went out a few times. That was the year, if I recall, that the washing machine and the air conditioner both quit on us. Anyway, the a/c might need to be replaced this year. I'm not thrilled about the expense, but a new unit will be nice. We shall see. And by the way, I'm miserably hot. I do not like to be hot. We've gone over this many times before, and I won't belabor the point (I'll try, anyway), but yeah, I'm uncomfortable.
  • I have a nasty infection in my right ear. Or on my right ear. It's in the soft tissue at the entrance of the ear canal, including the ear lobe. The lymph node at the back of my jaw is sore and swollen, as is the next lymph node below that, at my neck. It's hard to tell because of all the extra fat, but the right side of my jaw and neck are swollen. The ear canal is nearly swollen shut, and I can't hear very well in that ear. It's all very uncomfortable. I saw the doctor on Thursday afternoon, and am on an antibiotic. Things haven't seemed to improve much yet, though. It hurts and itches, which is a real bitch because it hurts to scratch it. That, plus I'm hot and sweaty (and not in a good way) puts me in something of a cranky mood.
  • I bought myself a little inflatable pool yesterday. It's a rectangle, big enough for me to stretch out and almost float in. Not quite deep enough for a complete float, but it is cool and nice. I spent some time in it yesterday. I'd be in it today except that I need to drive Twitch back to school very soon.
  • Sproing went with me on Friday to get Twitch. We first went to Light's college and picked up a load of her stuff. The little Aveo was really packed with her stuff, Sproing, and Twitch in it. Sproing and I spent eight hours together, most of it just the two of us. We had a blast! It was 99 & 44/100ths % fun. In a 12-year-old humor sort of way, but I can get into that when the mood strikes. Yes, we talked about farts and buggers.
  • He wants to go with me to take Twitch back this afternoon, but he's acting like a little twerp and I'm not sure if I will take him.
And that's about it. I have a solo day trip coming up on Wednesday that I'll probably blog about on Thursday. Superman and I see Diva for more family therapy on Tuesday. My ear should get better soon, and if it doesn't I'll go back to the doctor. And now you know.

10 comments:

A Lewis said...

Air Conditioning is on the TOP of my list of must-haves in this life. I do not envy you.

Anonymous said...

One of the reasons we have remained here in the fair hills of Blowing Rock is there is no need for Air Conditioning with the cool mountain breezes throughout the summer. However, we have to have one heck of a heating system through the winter.

Sounds as though you're keeping very busy... that's always a good thing!

Jim said...

We had 'natural' air conditioning here today....it was cold.

We consider buying an air conditioner in August....for about two weeks......it's the hottest and most humid then. But then we forget about it because it's cool again.

You have one busy life Java. Bet you're looking forward to that one day by yourself!

Birdie said...

It feels like October here: cold and wet. Yuck.

I remember those days when I had energy to complete a list like this one, when the kids were young. Good thing they grew up.

Cubby said...

Getting excited about next week, packing our bags tonight. Making lists and printing stuff off the internet. The weather forecast is looking good too (thank God). I think next week may just be wonderful.

Ur-spo said...

it all sounds exhausting
best to bring the pool indoors until the AC is operating.

Richard said...

Sorry to hear your AC is on the fritz. Promising news about Sproing!

Rox said...

I know EXACTLY what you mean about the whole new purse/new wallet thing. I recently replaced my purse from basically a wallet on a string. I bought a new wallet and hated it, so then I went out and bought another new wallet. I like this one better but I find I'm still fumbling. Whatever.

I hope your ear feels better.

Keep trying with Diva. Maybe you two could do a scrapbook together. I just had deja vu, so did I suggest this already? It would be a good exercise to get you both reflecting on your relationship, I think.

tornwordo said...

Ear infections are the worst and I hope that and the ac resolve themselves. Yay for a good day with Sproing!

Greg Lilly said...

It's finally happened.... The new novel is coming out (and I have advanced copies). You won the "Name the Character After Me" contest, so I have one ready for you. E-mail me your mailing address and I'll get it to you.
:-)