My father died around 2 this morning.
I want to post it to Facebork, but my brother doesn't want it there yet, so I'll wait. But I want to let my blog buddies know.
Last Tuesday Daddy had a heart valve replaced. Things went well with the surgery, the valve was doing what it was supposed to do. Evidently, though, his intestines didn't wake up from the anesthesia. He never passed any stool, they gave him laxatives and an enema that didn't work. He was nauseous a lot. Then last night he "coded." They revived him, but he coded again a little while later and he was gone.
He's gone.
I got up this morning, showered, dressed, and checked my phone. I'd plugged it in last night and turned off the sound. I had five missed calls from my youngest brother Jim and a text from the older (but not older than me) brother Mike. The text was sent at 4:00 this morning. It said "Call me at either number as soon as you get this. I love you." and I knew it was bad news. Didn't know how bad, but ... well, you know. So I called Mike. And now I know. I'm glad I had a good night sleep last night.
Superman has packed the truck, we're about ready to leave for home. We spent the night last night with my cousin in Richmond, VA. As much as I enjoyed being with Jay, I'm really glad to be with family this morning. We'll be home late this afternoon/early evening. I'll try to get a good night sleep tonight, then head down to Gainesville, FL tomorrow.
Superman and I had the most marvelous weekend in recent memory. I am so glad we got to spend that time with such wonderful people at the Bloggerpalooza. I feel somewhat refreshed and very much supported to go into this difficult week ahead. I'll keep you informed as I am able.
Moving Along, but Adrift
11 years ago
13 comments:
{{{{{hugs}}}}} for you and your family; my thoughts are with you.
SO HAPPY to have met you and superman this past weekend. we all had too damn much fun!
I am so sorry to hear of this. Please know that you are in my thoughts today.
Ron
I am sorry for your loss. Big hugz to you!
I'm so sorry, Java. Perhaps it was serendipity that took you to your cousin's house Sunday evening. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Peace <3
Jay
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your father.
So sorry for your loss! I'm a long-time reader/lurker, but wanted to send you hugs today.
Our sincere condolences, my "new" friend. We will talk soon.
Positive Prayers and Thoughts !
The first thought that came to my mind "Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.”
I'm so very sorry to hear this! My condolences to you and Superman.
I want to join the conga line - what sad news indeed on such a happy weekend. I am glad you have so many around you now for faith support and companionship.
Saw this on Facebook but wanted to come here also and tell you we are thinking of you guys.
So sorry to read about your loss. My condolences.
I'm so sorry for your loss, dear Java. I hope that the love of family and friends can carry you through this sad time. Big hugs to you.
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