And speaking of what's new with Light, she is dating! As you may or may not know, in addition to being ambi-sexual, she's also bi-sexual, so when she told me she was going on a date, I had to ask "boy or girl?" It's a girl. Not only did she go on a date, she now has a girlfriend. I'm thrilled. I've met the young lady in question, and find her to be a delightful specimen of the sex. *
This is N at his high school graduation. Yes! He graduated! We're all so proud of him. He graduated at the end of the first semester, in mid January. That was a while ago, and I've been meaning to tell you about it and provide a picture ever since then.
Yesterday N and I went to the local beauty college to see about getting him enrolled. He keeps calling but not getting anyone. But they were open yesterday so we went. He may be able to start as early as next Wednesday, depending on his Pell Grant application and what Vocational Rehabilitation (Voc Rehab) is able to do. The next thing on my agenda with him is to get him a driver's learner's permit. This fella needs to get off his ass and get busy with life.
And this is what I've been busy with in my sculpture class. Those are pieces of steel that I cut out, welded (yes, welded) together, and painted.
In three views, since it's a 3D piece of art.

After seeing the finished product painted and all, I now want to repaint it in darker colors. I like the colors, but they need to be darker. It looks too washed out the way it is now.
I am in the middle of my spring break this week. My intention (road-to-hell) was to do a lot of studying and get a lot of assignments done. However, my motivation got lost somewhere in the basement. I finally finished the first assignment on my list yesterday, after fooling around with it for three days. It's an easy assignment, too. I could have done it in less than 30 minutes if I'd been serious about it. There is a lot more work to do, and here I sit.
Since I'm not studying anyway, I decided to get my sewing stuff out yesterday. I have pretty much everything set out, finally. It took me a long time to find all that I need because my sewing stuff is so disorganized. OK, my whole house is disorganized if you want to know the truth. Didn't actually sew anything yesterday, though, because once I got it all together, I had to go run the errands with N.
My truck, Manny, is in the shop again. The brakes were acting wonky, catching and stopping me suddenly as I tried to gently slow down. The poor ol' boy is on his last bearings. We've put so much money into repairs, and Superman is more and more frustrated about that. I told the mechanic that if it's a cheap, easy fix, then fix it. If it's a major problem, lead the ol' boy around back and shoot him. I love my truck. He's a piece of junk, but I love him. He's not that safe anymore, and certainly not dependable, and I realize it's time to think about replacing him. It's sad, but necessary. He has been an important element in my life over the past four years or so.
Sproing is doing pretty well, all things considered. He's a whole lot better than he was the last time I posted. He has his days, his episodes, but he recovers better than he used to, and his outbursts are less frequent. Baby steps. It's progress; slow but good.
Diva is batshit crazy, but that's a well established fact. Superman and I had a good talk with one of her mental health service coordinators earlier this week. The upshot is that we love her, care about her, and want the best for her, but are not capable of providing the level of care and supervision she needs at home right now. The service coordinator is working to get her into a therapeutic foster home when she leaves the treatment facility she's in now. The child is making some progress, but it's slow and unsteady with lots of reversals. There is a general upward trend (improvement), but the slope is shallow, low, whatever. She's a very sick (mentally) girl.
And I'm taking Child Psychopathology this semester. Psycho-Child! In our last class we started talking about some of the more serious mental disorders, and covered Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), which Sproing has, and Conduct Disorder which Diva has. It was a depressing class, really affected my emotional state. It was hard to sit there and have the major difficulties in my life discussed in all their gory glory. It's much easier to deal with it in smaller doses, a piece at a time. I survived. Didn't even cry or anything.
I think I was going to discuss something else, but I forget what, so I'll quit writing now and post this. Enjoy. Hopefully I'll post again soon, more sooner than the latest interval. If you don't hear from me again soon, it's because I'm inundated with school work. I graduate at the end of April. I might not post again until May. Hopefully sooner, but no promises.
*Yes, I really do talk like that sometimes. It delights some, and irritates others.
11 comments:
Glad to see you posting. After the last post I was getting a little concerned about the lengthening period of time!
I too was a bit concerned about the time between postings but am so glad to hear things have settled and improved somewhat.
Your art is amazing. Every piece I have seen you post brought a smile and some joy to me as they are so beautiful. I so need to get off my ass and try something creative. I think I may have a tiny bit in me but have never felt good enough so to speak....time to change that feeling!
First off, love the sculpture! You are one talented gal! If the psych degree doesn't go where you want it, you have something to fall back on.
Sounds like the kids are 'moving right along' with themselves. Must be difficult to hear and see all that happening with Diva. You can only do so much yourselves....
You sound very upbeat! Or is that hysteria? lol With all the work you have to do before graduation!!! Good luck and congrats.....you know you'll graduate!
this is quite a road you've paved here.... your life seems to have sweetened... what a blessing...
I love Light’s t-shirt.
You did a great job with the sculpture. Were you inspired by Calder? A darker color will give the piece a stronger presence and may be better if the piece is installed outside.
I would LOVE to cut and weld! I'm totally jealous! Metal work has always been out of my reach.
You are so freakin' artistically talented - I can't even draw stick figures without people diagnosing me as autistic.
Hopefully, when N graduates from the Hair Academy, he can give you a cut and colour (I'm feeling British today) and you can stop giving yourself prison haircuts. LOL
See - things are working out - albeit S-L-O-W-L-Y. Buck up - Spring IS on the way!
I too am pleased as punch to see you posting. I am glad for all your updates.
I like the T-shirt
I very much like the sculpture and just as it is - no need to repaint it in my opinion!
Welcome back! So many things going on in your life, and it all sounds really good. I LOVE the t-shirt. My sister would have killed for it: she recently had surgery to go way down to a perky DD. Yeah, you read right. Her back hurt from carrying all that weight, and she was really tired of men not looking her in the eye. She looks great now.
Speaking of great: your sculpture. You have a wonderful gift for dimensional art. I'm really envious. Where will you install it?
Hope you had a really good week, Java. Everything seems to be going the right direction for you now, and I'm very happy for that. Take it easy :-)
Wow. Lots going on. It was nice to catch up with you life. Hope to be back here more regularly moving forward.
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